The New Year is a time when many of us are fed that clarity is supposed to arrive, a new leaf is to be turned, and that our grief may feel different or better. Yet for most who are grieving, New Year's can feel quite the opposite. ​

The holidays are here. And for many of us, they're not exactly merry and bright. Maybe you're grieving a loss. Maybe you're navigating a breakup. Maybe you're just feeling the weight of loneliness or the general global angst that seems to be everywhere right now. Whatever it is, you're carrying something heavy into this season, and the pressure to be joyful about it all can feel suffocating. So we're doing something a little different this year.