Frequently Asked Questions

Consider grief therapy if you're experiencing: • Intense emotions that feel overwhelming or unmanageable • Difficulty functioning in daily life (work, relationships, self-care) • Feeling stuck in your grief or unable to move forward • Physical symptoms like exhaustion, headaches, or sleep problems • Anxiety or depression that emerged after your loss • Thoughts that scare you or feelings of wanting to join your loved one • Isolation or withdrawal from people and activities • Anger, guilt, or regret that feels consuming • Numbness or inability to feel anything • Difficulty accepting the reality of your loss • A sense that others don't understand or can't handle your grief You don't need to wait until grief becomes "serious" to seek help. Many people benefit from therapy early in their grief journey to develop healthy coping tools and process emotions before they become overwhelming. There's no "right" time to start grief therapy—if you're wondering whether you need support, that question itself is often a sign that therapy could help.

Grief therapy is a specialized form of therapy that recognizes grief is not a mental health disorder but a natural human experience. Unlike general therapists who may occasionally work with grieving clients, our entire practice focuses exclusively on grief and loss. We understand the unique challenges of grief—the waves of emotion, the physical exhaustion, the feeling that your world has fundamentally changed. We don't try to "fix" you or rush your process. Instead, we provide pragmatic tools to help you integrate grief into your life story without letting it define you. Our therapists are trained in grief-specific modalities like Complicated Grief Treatment, Prolonged Grief Therapy, and understand the nuances of different types of grief including disenfranchised grief, anticipatory grief, and traumatic grief. As skilled grief therapists, we are comfortable in the space of not needing to fix you—for there is no fixing when someone you love dies or your life changes in irreversible ways. We know that welcoming your pain and being with you in it is the only way grief evolves.

We have come to know unprocessed grief as a root of human suffering. Unprocessed grief can show up as anxiety, depression, isolation, self-doubt, rage, estrangement, physical maladies, addiction, self-loathing, and much more. Our role is to help you healthfully integrate your grief so it takes its place as a part of your story without defining you. Grieving is exhausting on all levels—physically, mentally, emotionally, and existentially. It can be hard enough to buy groceries, let alone reach out for support. We want to make this first step as easy as possible.

Many people we meet with have never been to therapy. Many have never before experienced the intensity and disorientation that grief can bring. You can expect us to take time in the first session to discern your individual needs (e.g., what do you want more of in your life? and what do you want less of in your life?), provide you with pragmatic information and tools, and form collaborative goals by which we can measure progress. The first session is also an opportunity for you to get to know your therapist and decide if it feels like a good fit. We encourage you to ask questions and share what you need from therapy.

Each of our clinicians brings unique strengths, training, and specializations to their work. During your initial contact with us, we'll learn about your needs and help match you with a therapist who specializes in your particular type of grief or loss and is licensed in your state. We also offer consultation calls where you can speak with a therapist before committing to sessions. This gives you a chance to ask questions, discuss your situation, and get a sense of whether the therapist feels like a good fit. If after starting therapy you don't feel a connection with your therapist, we encourage you to let us know so we can help you find a better match within our team.

Availability varies by clinician and location. Some therapists may have immediate openings, while others may have a brief wait. When you contact us, we'll work to match you with the most appropriate therapist and get you scheduled as quickly as possible. We understand that when you're ready to start therapy, you're ready—and we do our best to minimize wait times.

The length of grief therapy varies greatly depending on your individual needs, the type of loss you've experienced, and your goals for therapy. Some people find benefit from a few months of focused grief work, while others engage in therapy for a year or longer. Grief doesn't follow a timeline, and neither does grief therapy. We work collaboratively with you to assess progress and determine what feels right for your healing journey. You're always in control of how long you continue therapy.

Yes. Grief often manifests as depression, anxiety, or both. These are common responses to loss, and grief therapy is specifically designed to address these symptoms in the context of your grief. We help you understand how grief and mental health symptoms interact, provide tools to manage overwhelming emotions, and work toward integrating your loss in a way that allows you to engage with life again. Our approach addresses the root of your suffering—the unprocessed grief—rather than just treating symptoms.